April 09, 2011

Relationship Health - Don't Fence Them In




When you are with someone special, it seems that time flies. chemistry between you two is so amazing to see each other more better relationship.


and there lies the trap that snags too many pairs. bond becomes so strong that neither is willing to give the relationship space will be needed to breath and grow.


reasons why this happens can vary. It may be insecurity. I can not believe this is an incredible person in your life. You also have the fear of losing them, so they are constantly in their air space only to reassure yourself. Another reason could be jealousy. Your significant other belongs to you and only you. Nobody goes to the buds and spoil what you two have. Even their family and friends for a long time become intruders in the relationship.


Regardless of the motive, as in any other company or in constant contact is not healthy. For one thing everyone needs time for himself. This is doubly important given that most of us around the world are constantly bombarded with information. Researchers have shown that we get more information in one of the preceding generations combined received in my whole life.


This does not mean that your significant other thinks you part of a never ending background noise that accompanies our lives. But you can do them a big favor by giving them time and space to relax from the daily grind.


If you are married to check in with her partner briefly in the morning and encourage them to check in with you in the evening. If you are dating and then getting a day off here and there from each other will not hurt. Everyone should follow their own interests and to convince others to do the same.


This approach can panic many couples. They feel that it is important to be in constant contact, as this will show how much they care about each other. The problem is once you get into a routine that will always be together it can lead to just that, dull as dishwater routine that after some time has both parties feeling claustrophobic. It's almost guaranteed that when people feel trapped seek a way out.


for the space does not mean you do not care about the person you are s. In fact, it means the opposite and more: you care enough to not only respect them as individuals, but also their time and space. This can make the connection between you two that much stronger and more durable.

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