Guard your health and will help you get and keep a saner, healthier outlook on life.
It will also help you to get your natural, normal self. Too many of us love to look, act and appear to be important. We feel neglected when we are in the spotlight and in time will do almost anything to attract the desired attention to themselves.
How about you? How often do you brag and boast about the importance of work, on his influential friends, about his past, about their activities in different groups, or other things that strike your fancy for a moment?
How often assume a supercilious airs, leaving the impression that you know all the answers, pretend that you are too big to be bothered with petty things or make believe money, as such, does not mean anything to you? How often seek recognition and that will compromise a dozen times, confidentially, of course, to get a little publicity?
Have you ever stopped to ask yourself why you are so anxious to impress people? Psychologists say it is a form of anxiety and the main reason for this lies in the feeling of inferiority. You want people to think you're an important person. So, you build an illusion around you that you have the power, friends and influences. However, at the same time, the anxiety stays with you. You are constantly afraid that someone might look behind the false front and see you for what you really are. . . . And, you start to brag and boast a bit more.
titles, awards, badge office, obey little sense to have a truly "great" man. It is beyond simple claims and petty subterfuges. He does not play a role, or to believe, in most cases it is simply a man. As for the little man, he thrives on these things.
Many of us plays a part, some of the time. We act one way at work, and the other in the game. We can be kind and sweet at home, but harsh and unforgiving to those under us at work, and we May be the life of the party to socialize and gruff, grumpy man at home; overgenerous host when strangers are around, but a penny-pincher in the bosom of our immediate family.
Of course, a certain amount of play-acting is often needed to call to polish, owned or manners. We would like to tell the truth, to reveal our true feelings, but we can not do it for a moment and be polite and friendly and caring. The danger lies in executing an excuse too far in front wearing a fake too, believe in making too often. Then it becomes a form of escape and leads to problems.
is too much drama, exaggerate every trivial incident, attributing undue importance to small things and overacting in the slightest provocation is a nerve-wracking. Pretending you're someone else and what a bad job is to undermine confidence, they lose their identity and become "nobody". Pretext and drama can get you sympathy or attention temporarily, but they rarely last and leave a bad taste with all interested parties.
Guard your health and be your natural self. Capitalize on what you are and what you have. Be simple, friendly, pleasant. All this will lighten your load, brighten your day and add to the joy, beauty and richness of his life.
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